Anyways I was a work yesterday and something weird happened. A girl walked up to the counter..
Girl: Hey, are you J?
Me: Ummmm...... yes....
Girl: Oh hi! I'm (I can't even remember her name, cause I'm terrible at names).
Girl: P's never mentioned me? Ah man I'm gonna kill him, I'm his best friend. You should tell him he need to hang out with me more.
At this point I think "Oh Shit". Because P is this guy that I've been kinda seeing, in the way that occasionally he calls me asks if I need a ride home then spends the night. He pulled the "where is this going" question, and I honestly told him not anywhere. He asked if we should slow down, and I said not unless he wanted to. Then he said "So we'll just keep this up and see how it goes." And I told, explicitly not to wait or me, that waiting or me would end badly. And since then whenever he expresses interest in another girl I tell him to ask her out.
Anyways so last night while at project partners house he called me. I brought up the girl that came to see me at work, and he said "Yeah, she works around the corner from you. I told her about how we're kinda.... sorta .... dating."
So yeah, now I think I have to draw the line in a thicker marker.